Sunday, December 14, 2008

Christopher First Piano Recital!

My son, Christopher, had his first piano recital. Andrea and my Mom and Dad and I were beaming the whole time.

The songs as you can see on the clip are:

Away in A Manger
O Come All Ye Faithful
Jolly Saint Nick

The person introducing him is his teacher, Ms. Lacy. Christopher turned 6 years old in October and is one of the youngest (if not the youngest) piano students at his music school. He just started playing this year and did an outstanding job!!

Thursday, November 06, 2008

Yes We Did!..... Now What?

My last posting on my forsaken blog was to introduce Senator Barack Obama to those who had not heard of him. It spoke about a speech that he gave in 2002 regarding his opposition to the Iraq war at a time when such opposition was not popular. He demonstrated his wisdom and forsight at that time and gave us an early look at the person we would all see in the time leading up to November 4, 2008.

Today, many of us sit in a euphoric state with the realization that this man with the “funny name” is now the President-Elect of the United States of America (Wow, I almost teared up just typing it!). Who would have thought just two years ago or even one year ago that such a thing was possible in America.

It is truly amazing how one event can change history and with it change people’s outlook on life. There are people at my office who I see everyday, whether they be construction workers, guards, secretaries, managers who have rarely noticed me and who I have admittedly not spoken to as well. However, yesterday we were all brothers and sisters, we were all proud Americans. A young black construction worker came up to me yesterday with a mouth full of gold teeth (two fangs) and told me how he never understood the big deal over “saggy” pants until yesterday. He said he wanted to represent what President-Elect Obama represented yesterday. He said that for the first time in his life he felt that anything is possible. He said he already has plans to go back to school next year. Today, I saw the young man again today and he was just as excited.

All of us need to realize that this joy, this motivation, this excitement, will mean nothing if it does not turn into action. Prior to Tuesday, November 4, 2008, the mantra of the Obama campaign was “Yes, We Can”. Yesterday, for many of us it was “Yes, We Did!”. But I would suggest that it continue to be “Yes, We Can” and here’s why.

President-Elect Obama will face some of the most daunting challenges that any President in recent history has had to face. A declining economy, two wars and a world that has looked at us with skepticism and disdain. I believe that his election has in some ways immediately assisted at least our global reputation. But it cannot stop there. If Obama has shown anything, it is that despite Governor Palin’s view of “community organizers”, such work is the backbone and foundation of this great nation. Such work and workers are what made it possible for black men and for all women to vote. Such work and workers are what produced a man who over forty years ago had a dream and who told us that “We shall overcome”.

So today, I ask that we not look upon President-Elect Obama to do the heavy lifting from the top of mountain and nation upon which he now sits. But that we take to heart the words that he has instilled in all of us. That is that change does not come from the top down, but from the bottom up. If you haven’t done so, and I’ll be the first to raise my hand, get involved in your local community. Don’t just go to your church, but get involved in the community which surrounds it. Don’t just complain about your Government, do something to change it. Next time you see that man, woman, boy or girl on the street, don’t just look down at them and walk by. Say an encouraging word and if you can, help them. Instead of constantly criticizing our youth, talk to them, encourage them and most importantly pray for them.

The Change We Need was not just President-Elect Obama, the Change We Need is still to come and it starts not with Obama but with all of us.

Monday, February 05, 2007

Barack Obama- 2002 Speech

I was watching Meet the Press Sunday morning and Tim Russert was grilling John Edwards on his initial support of the war. He mentioned that both Hillary and Edwards had initially supported the war, while Obama had not. I had heard that before, but had never seen Obama's statements regarding the same. Below is a speech that Obama gave on October 26, 2002, almost 6 months before the war began and almost 2 years before his speech at the Democrat National Convention.

It just struck me how on point this man was in his thinking and foresight. It is too early to tell if he can or will win, but he definitely has my attention.


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"Good afternoon. Let begin by saying that although this has been billed as an anti-war rally, I stand before you as someone who is not opposed to war in all circumstances.

The Civil War was one of the bloodiest in history, and yet it was only through the crucible of the sword, the sacrifice of multitudes, that we could begin to perfect this union, and drive the scourge of slavery from our soil.

I don’t oppose all wars.

My grandfather signed up for a war the day after Pearl Harbor was bombed, fought in Patton’s army. He saw the dead and dying across the fields of Europe; he heard the stories of fellow troops who first entered Auschwitz and Treblinka. He fought in the name of a larger freedom, part of that arsenal of democracy that triumphed over evil, and he did not fight in vain.

I don’t oppose all wars.

After September 11th, after witnessing the carnage and destruction, the dust and the tears, I supported this Administration’s pledge to hunt down and root out those who would slaughter innocents in the name of intolerance, and I would willingly take up arms myself to prevent such tragedy from happening again.

I don’t oppose all wars. And I know that in this crowd today, there is no shortage of patriots, or of patriotism.What I am opposed to is a dumb war. What I am opposed to is a rash war. What I am opposed to is the cynical attempt by Richard Perles and Paul Wolfowitz and other arm-chair, weekend warriors in this Administration to shove their own ideological agendas down our throats, irrespective of the costs in lives lost and in hardships borne.

What I am opposed to is the attempt by political hacks like Karl Roves to distract us from a rise in the uninsured, a rise in the poverty rate, a drop in the median income – to distract us from corporate scandals and a stock market that has just gone through the worst month since the Great Depression.

That’s what I’m opposed to. A dumb war. A rash war. A war based not on reason but on passion, not on principle but on politics.

Now let me be clear – I suffer no illusions about Saddam Hussein. He is a brutal man. A ruthless man. A man who butchers his own people to secure his own power. He has repeatedly defied UN resolutions, thwarted UN inspection teams, developed chemical and biological weapons, and coveted nuclear capacity.

He’s a bad guy. The world, and the Iraqi people, would be better off without him.

But I also know that Saddam poses no imminent and direct threat to the United States, or to his neighbors, that the Iraqi economy is in shambles, that the Iraqi military a fraction of its former strength, and that in concert with the international community he can be contained until, in the way of all petty dictators, he falls away into the dustbin of history.

I know that even a successful war against Iraq will require a US occupation of undetermined length, at undetermined cost, with undetermined consequences. I know that an invasion of Iraq without a clear rationale and without strong international support will only fan the flames of the middle east, and encourage the worst, rather than best, impulses of the Arab world, and strengthen the recruitment arm of al-Qaeda.

I am not opposed to all wars. I’m opposed to dumb wars.

So for those of us who seek a more just and secure world for our children, let us send a clear message to the president today. You want a fight, President Bush? Let’s finish the fight with Bin Laden and al-Qaeda, through effective, coordinated intelligence, and a shutting down of the financial networks that support terrorism, and a homeland security program that involves more than color-coded warnings.

You want a fight, President Bush? Let’s fight to make sure that the UN inspectors can do their work, and that we vigorously enforce a non-proliferation treaty, and that former enemies and current allies like Russia safeguard and ultimately eliminate their stores of nuclear material, and that nations like Pakistan and India never use the terrible weapons already in their possession, and that the arms merchants in our own country stop feeding the countless wars that rage across the globe.

You want a fight, President Bush? Let’s fight to make sure our so-called allies in the Middle East, the Saudis and the Egyptians, stop oppressing their own people, and suppressing dissent, and tolerating corruption and inequality, and mismanaging their economies so that their youth grow up without education, without prospects, without hope, the ready recruits of terrorist cells.

You want a fight, President Bush? Let’s fight to wean ourselves off Middle East oil, through an energy policy that doesn’t simply serve the interests of Exxon and Mobil.

Those are the battles that we need to fight. Those are the battles that we willingly join. The battles against ignorance and intolerance. Corruption and greed. Poverty and despair.

The consequences of war are dire, the sacrifices immeasurable. We may have occasion in our lifetime to once again rise up in defense of our freedom, and pay the wages of war. But we ought not – we will not – travel down that hellish path blindly. Nor should we allow those who would march off and pay the ultimate sacrifice, who would prove the full measure of devotion with their blood, to make such an awful sacrifice in vain."

Wednesday, January 17, 2007

Wii-tastic!!!!!!!

Who said video games were just for couch potatoes? My family picked up a Nintendo Wii just before Christmas and it has been a blast so far. How did we get it, you ask? Well, I have to give all the credit to my lovely wife, Andrea. I heard through the grapevine that at least 20 would be at our local Circuit City and Andrea (on her way to get her hair done) graciously stopped by and was fortunate to be number 18 in line and the store actually got 21 Wiis (and hasn’t had anymore readily available since).

This thing is great. The best game so far is Wii Sports which simulates different sports with the “Wiimote”. Basically, to swing a bat, you swing the Wiimote, to throw a punch you motion like you’re fighting, to golf, you swing like you’re golfing. The most exciting thing is this has actually helped my son hit a baseball!!!!! Before we purchased the Wii my four year old son, Christopher, could not hit a baseball. Not even once. Initially on the Wii, he also would swing and miss, but he kept trying and eventually got the timing down. The other day, I decided to go out to the yard to see if any of this had transferred to the real thing….guess what, out of about 12 pitches I threw to him, he hit EIGHT!!!!!! As you could imagine, I was ecstatic!

It also seems to appeal to everyone. My brother-in-law, who is about 50 never played video games before. I brought the Wii over for Christmas and was playing golf and he asked to try. After a few matches, he really got into it and now is searching for one for himself!

It also is a great workout, especially boxing. Once, I figure out how to post a video, I’ll do so, so you can see how crazy but fun this thing is. I’ll also post some Miis (little characters that you make that play the games). Some really look like their counterparts (particularly the one of my brother, Ricky and brother-in-law Roy). Adult and child alike….Wii for the Win!!!!!

Wednesday, October 25, 2006

Don't Vote

Saturday, I had a conversation with my two brothers-in-law regarding the upcoming elections. One of the sad truths that I think came from our conversation is our collective feeling that regardless of political affiliation, the Dems and Pubs seemingly could care less about what you and I think (and when I say “you and I”, I mean Americans regardless of race,
gender, ect).

Some of the crazies have taken over the Democratic Party (Howard Dean anyone) though at least (and I am definitely and happily surprised) Nancy Pelosi is pledging to reign them (and herself) in a bit at least for the time being, only time will tell. Hollywood has even shut theircollective mouths for now. The Republicans in most cases seem to just be “yes” men and
women for the current President, offering almost no barrier to some of his clearly failing and flawed policies, even when many of his policies seem to fly in the face of historical Republican beliefs (fiscal responsibility seems to come to mind...) .

While I have gotten really down lately over our current political system (and the Eagles losses…another story…), the best thing that I can do as an American is make sure that I vote smartly. For far too long, black Americans and other minorities as well as white Americans (particularly in the south) have just reflexively pulled the lever of their forefathers having no clue why or whom they are voting for. I’m guilty myself of doing that early on.

The fact is, that after primaries in most states, you can vote for whomever you want, Democrat, Republican, Independant, Libertarian, Green Party, whatever. There is a reason why we are stuck with this failing two party system and it is because too many people vote based on family history and not on facts.

I found a great website that will save you a lot of time in researching your candidates. It’s www.dontvote.com . I agree totally with its premise which is don’t vote for a handsome face, cute slogan, because “I’m black and should vote Democrat”, or from the south and should vote Republican…ect. Look at the issues and vote for the person or people that represent your way
of thinking and your view of the issues. It has links to each candidate's web site and other helpful info.

This 2006 election is every bit as important as the 2008 Presidential Election as President Bush has a full 2 years remaining in his term. Congress is essentially up for grabs. The decision you make now will not only impact our policies for the next two years, but will have a definite impact on what is likely to happen in our next (and maybe most important) Presidential Election. Remember, you are not a Republican or a Democrat….you are an American. Make your decision accordingly.

Tuesday, April 25, 2006

Basket Buckle

Children never cease to amaze me. My wife was recently reading the story of Moses to our son from his children’s Bible. When she arrived at the part where Moses is found by the Egyptian Princess, she stated that the Princess was going to take him home with her…..Our 3-year old son’s response….. “But, mommy, where is baby Moses’ car seat?” …. “Is the basket his car seat?” Now if a 3-year old knows the importance of a seat belt, why don’t we all? Be safe this summer and make sure you’re buckled in to your basket!

Tuesday, April 04, 2006

The Blame Game (AKA: The White Guy made me do it)

Blame it on the White Guy….

This Cynthia McKinney thing has me thinking of how often, black Americans (myself included), often fail to correct our flaws because WE are blinded by race. Many of us have either been victims of racism or have heard gross stories of racism and perceive many things that are not race related as being racist.

I’ll give a personal example. When I was in law school, I had an interview at a law firm in Seattle, Washington. I went to school in New Orleans, LA and was the only person selected to interview in person out of many applicants both white and black. I interviewed in Seattle and thought the interview went ok, however, I did not get the job. My first thoughts……”I didn’t get the job because I’m black”. This despite the fact that they flew me all the way 900 miles away to interview, whined and dined me, and put me up in a lush hotel. But it is so much easier to blame your failures on others by claiming racism then by looking at yourself to see why you did not succeed.

Looking back, I realized several things. I never wrote any thank you notes to any of my interviewers (big no no). I told the hiring partner (using bad advice from a book) that I was interested in something I really wasn’t and that was all I ever wanted to do (thus demonstrating my inflexibility as a new associate) I was not myself but what I thought I should be (again bad advice from a book). I had no real reason for why I wanted to live or work in Seattle being from Philly and having no family or friends on the west coast. Finally, I just didn’t interview well.

Had I based that failure on my shortcomings, I could have quickly corrected them. However, I made it a racial issue, placed the blame on others and continued those same mistakes in future interviews. Fortunately, wisdom came with time and I looked at the real reasons for my shortcomings and have tried to correct them.

Racism does exist. But everything, every failure, every shortcoming, cannot be explained away by racism. To do so not only harms those legitimate cries of racism, but it also causes us not to really examine the real problem which in many cases is within. Cynthia McKinney is another example of blame shifting. Instead of apologizing for her clearly inappropriate behaviour, she is calling racism and the NAACP and Black Clergy are foolish enough to support her. But let Bill Cosby criticize his own people for things that we should be criticized for (bad English, profanity, degrading women, black on black violence, ect). Then he’s criticized for airing our “dirty laundry”. Well, if you ask me, the stench of Cynthia McKinney and her “race blaming” is enough dirty laundry for us all.